Ben Affleck explained his choice to limit discussions about his renewed romance with Jennifer Lopez prior to their marriage and subsequent divorce.
Describing himself as a “flawed individual,” the director of *Argo*, 52, mentioned his desire to “exercise some restraint” and steer clear of “gossipy details” concerning their rekindled love, aiming to avoid the mistakes they made during their first relationship.
“One of the tougher lessons I’ve learned is that it’s not wise to lay everything bare for the world,” Affleck stated in an interview with *The Wall Street Journal* in December 2021.
On August 20, Jennifer Lopez filed for divorce from Ben Affleck, marking two years since the Hollywood couple renewed their commitment by getting married.
“There are aspects of life that remain private and intimate, and their value is tied to the fact that they’re not public knowledge,” he continued.
Affleck expanded on his boundaries regarding media discussions about his personal life. “I feel more comfortable maintaining healthy boundaries, telling you directly that I don’t wish to discuss my relationship in the press.”
“I’m going to practice some restraint,” he reiterated.
When asked about the beginning of their relationship’s second chapter, Affleck was reserved but appreciative. “I can say it’s definitely beautiful to me. I really value that it was approached in a way that reflects that.”
“My life now embodies not just who I aspire to be, but who I genuinely feel I am—imperfect yet striving and committed to honesty and authenticity,” he explained.
Reflecting on the benefits of his measured approach, he added, “I can’t say who gains more from it. I just know I feel great about being healthy. It’s a good story—a great story. Perhaps one day I’ll write it all out… and then burn it,” he joked.
In discussing their second chance at love, the Oscar-winner said, “I consider myself fortunate to have had second chances, while I recognize many don’t even receive first chances. I’ve experienced second chances in my career and personal life. Life can be challenging, and we often stumble, hopefully learning along the way.”
“The key is to seize the opportunities that come with that growth. I’ve certainly worked to make the most of those chances.”
Affleck’s decision to maintain restraint is consistent with his earlier reflections on their first engagement, stating, “I think Jen and I erred by falling in love too openly, being overly accessible. We didn’t foresee how much attention it would attract.”